WALK ON THE BEACH
GUIDE TO PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
- dating - love - intimacy - health
way you think about your relationships, the skills and attitudes
you bring to them and the time and effort you put in can make
all the difference. People are social creatures and relationships
matter to us. We enjoy them, we cry over them and we're curious
about how to get our relationships to be the way we want them.
How well your relationships work can have a big impact on how
satisfied you feel with life. Stimulating, resilient, satisfying
relationships with partners, friends and family rank high on many
people's wish list for a happy life.
PLEASURE MAKING POSITIONS
majority of the dudes pick woman-on-top as their number-one nooky
style. And no wonder, considering the all-access view of your
bod, not to mention the excitement of watching you scale the pulse-pounding
Sit 'n' Spin
# Erotic instructions: With your guy flat on his back, face
him, your knees on the floor or mattress, and lower yourself
onto his penis. Have him put his hands on your thighs as you
place yours on his torso. Gyrate your hips in a circle continuously
in one direction, then switch directions.
Pleasure payoff for you: This easy-to-do pose puts you in the
driver's seat so you can control the speed and motion. Moving
in circles like a belly dancer makes you feel extra seductive,
and you'll get totally tingly with his shaft rubbing against
your vaginal walls.
Pleasure payoff for him: Besides the bodacious view of your
breasts, he'll love the soft circling motions. And the unexpected
twist in a new direction will keep him in a horny holding pattern,
so he won't climax too quickly.
# Erotic instructions: Have your man lie on his back. Lower
your body onto his shaft by planting your feet firmly on the
mattress or floor and putting your hands on his shoulders. (A
wall or headboard will also work.) He can help steady you by
placing his hands on either side of your hips. Using your legs
for leverage, "piston" straight up and down his shaft
as quickly as possible.
Pleasure payoff for you: While you may not be able to piston
like this for very long, the turbo-charged action kicks every
sensation up a naughty notch and lets you alternate between
ultradeep and more shallow motions. Your quads will get a good
Pleasure payoff for him: The sight of your set jiggling and
bouncing as your legs propel you up and down will drive him
wild. This aggressive move is all about that amazing animalistic
pleasure guys go gaga for.
to the Rodeo
# Erotic instructions: He lies flat on his back. Hop on top
of him facing his feet, guide his penis inside you, then carefully
lower yourself all the way back so that you are lying on top
of him. Extend your legs straight out and slightly apart.
Pleasure payoff for you: Woman on top has a rep for not producing
much body contact, but this position provides that carnal closeness
that makes doing the deed so damn steamy. The action is slow
and penetration shallow a major plus if your dude is
well-endowed. It'll also allow his penis to tantalize the supercharged
nerves of your lower V zone.
Pleasure payoff for him: He'll love that he can touch your breasts
and belly or manually stimulate you while nibbling your neck.
You can show him exactly how you get yourself off by guiding
his hand with yours a thrilling lesson most men crave.
# Erotic instructions: Start with your man in a seated position.
Face him and climb into his lap so you're straddling him, guiding
his penis inside you. Wrap your legs around his waist while
he crosses his legs Indian-style, then put your arms around
his neck as he holds you under your hips. Rock back and forth
for a long, sensual, big O buildup.
Pleasure payoff for you: The slow rocking motion lets his penis
glide over your G-spot the bliss button inside you that
often gets missed when you bump and grind at top speed.
Pleasure payoff for him: He'll love the feel of your breasts
pressed into his chest as you sway your bodies in rhythm. You
can also connect at the eyes and lips, taking your bond to a
tantric passion plane.
# Erotic instructions: Your guy should be sitting up, with his
weight on his palms and his legs stretched out and slightly
spread. Facing him, sit between his legs and place his penis
inside you. Lean back on your hands for balance, then lift your
legs and rest your ankles on his shoulders. Putting a small
pillow under your hips will help position you at just the right
Pleasure payoff for you: Unlike most female superior poses,
you won't be taking him for a ride: Your guy will do most of
the thrusting. Meanwhile, you can concentrate on how amazing
his penis feels stroking your G-spot.
Pleasure payoff for him: As he pumps and enjoys the action shot,
he'll be able to see your face and take in all the bliss he's
bringing you. And with your legs straddling his upper bod, he'll
be completely surrounded by you...and love every minute of it.
# Erotic instructions: Get your man to lie on his back, then
lower yourself onto his lap with your legs perpendicular to
his pelvis and guide his penis inside you. Place your hands
behind you for support and move up and down his shaft (carefully,
so you don't bend it and possibly hurt him), as he steadies
you under your legs.
Pleasure payoff for you: The pose lets you thrust deep, then
pull back so that just the tip of his penis is inside you. It's
a great move if your guy's on the small side or if you crave
a tighter fit.
Pleasure payoff for him: Every inch of your V will move up and
down along his member making him feel like he's penetrating
you for the first time with each new thrust. And with your legs
close together, you'll feel really snug around his penis.
# Erotic instructions: Have your guy lie flat on his back, his
legs extended and spread a bit. Facing him, position your body
on top of his, your pelvises aligned and your legs extended
outside of his. Once he's inside you, lean forward and put your
body weight on your palms. Your guy holds your hips or butt,
helping to support you and control your motions.
Pleasure payoff for you: With the close alignment of your pelvic
areas, your clitoris is in perfect position to rub against his
pubic bone, producing superhot stimulation. Plus, because your
torso presses against his, you won't feel quite so exposed.
Pleasure payoff for him: By grabbing your hips and butt, he
can pull you close to get really deep. And he'll feel every
inch of you while getting a primo view of your pair.
# Erotic instructions: While your guy lies back, lower yourself
facing his feet with your knees on either side of his torso.
Then, lean back, forming an arch. Have him hold your hips to
both support you and guide the thrusting.
Pleasure payoff for you: You'll be piloting your pleasure trip
by controlling the speed and depth of his thrusts. Another reason
this trick rocks? Arching your back will angle his member so
it rubs against your ultrasensitive G.
Pleasure payoff for him: This sexy slant will allow him to take
over the thrusting and gives him a chance to drive you wild
as he touches your G-spot and nipples while kissing the back
of your neck. And if you've got long hair, he'll love the feeling
of it grazing his chest.
Erotic instructions: He lies back, his butt on the edge of the
bed. Lower yourself onto his penis in reverse, your legs outside
his. After you start bouncing, slowly bend toward the floor.
Pleasure payoff for you: With your body leaning forward, your
man's penis has easy access to your G-spot. The bouncing is
softer than in-and-out moves.
Pleasure payoff for him: The view of you and the deep, tight
fit will electrify him from head to toe.